frankly speaking i am not writing in order to introduce solipsism ... phenomenology or even anything that relates to being and nothingness as one of my fav. books ever not even the tramnsendence of ego .... actually i am just proving my absolute contradiction ..... mainly most of us is not familiar with solipsism yet it makes sense, but the paradox lies in the fact that even if it makes sense i still can't believe it all goes only in my mind ..... if it all goes in the mind there wudn't have been mental diseases or illnesses related to psychology .... imaginations .. dreams ... fantasies ... they wud have all been the same stuff to human ... solipsism is mainly about things going only in a human's mind ..... like i am the one and the other .... that's actually how we all think yet we deny this is the way it goes ..... i can't deny a mind contributes a great deal in reacting towards a phenomenon to understand about things not only the way they seem .... and this varies because of perception ..... like foreground and background stuff ..... that's not actually obvious but telling what's a foreground and what's a background depends mainly on perception which is a matter of relativism ..... yet we all think as THE ONE AND THE OTHER ..... denial of other mentallities feeds on our brains .... we never accept differences .... how we define things and try to force others to perceive them the same way ..... i don't know may be i can criticise myself for doing the same thing ..... actuall